I absolutely refuse to accept the blame for a choice that my child makes...maybe I'm not the most motivated housekeeper in the world, but her lack of effort on the softball fieldis not my fault, and quite honestly, I am sick and fucking tired of being blamed for the things that she does that he doesn't like. I didn't stand out there in the outfield and tell her to watch that ball go by her without really trying to stop it...so don't lay it on me.